God only knows how important sexual self-esteem is for a man!
Almost always a man feels like a man to the extent that he feels strong and confident in bed.
The perfect erection becomes a confirmation of masculinity. These beliefs are embedded so deep in our culture that even the most aware men experience great discomfort when faced with any kind of problem concerning their penis.
Of course, approaching pleasure and intimacy with all this pressure of the perfect erection must really be a difficult thing for our poor male friends!
Tantra is a great help against sexual trauma by going on a healing journey with a holistic approach and embracing all spheres of being a woman. Body, mind, energy, and spirit.
A third of the women who come to our tantra workshops have been sexually abused!
A bitter truth!
Many women come to our courses in search of tools to heal the traumatic memories that abuse has left behind. I have heard weighty stories in so many years of working with women. I have seen terrified eyes. An abused woman is annihilated in her dignity as a woman and with all of us. When one is violated, we all get hurt. It is a collective wound.